By TebiJ

We have decided with Carla to enter the world of BDSM, whose acronym in our case would be Bondage Domina Submissive / or Masochism.
Domina: feminine, Carla is the domina / ama.
Submissive: depending on the occasion. Me, Tebi or Laurita, depending on what he loves.
For those who do not know us, I tell you we are a young couple who have a lot of sex (almost daily) in which we both give and receive 😉 Always first Carla takes me with harness and dildo, then change and I penetrate it.
Returning to the theme of this post …
When I’m from Laurita I’m very submissive, I always need Carla’s approval. Carla is the one who allowed the existence of my female alter ego and she is also the one who teaches me to “be” Laurita.
Everything was born unconsciously, playing Carla dominate me in bed at my request. Little by little Carla began to take pleasure in it, deciding in what position we had sex, how I had to move, at what pace.
Then we discovered that I was fascinated that he spanked me, yes, I love that he spanks me and they pull out uncontainable moans. Also small pulls of hair while penetrating me, as if holding my hair while doing it, or penetrating me while purposely presses his body on mine.
Things did not go beyond that, a slight domination … until recently. That seeing a comic series, of those that we like to see drinking beer and smoking marijuana, we come across this scene:

He spanked her tail and she enjoyed a face of incredible vice. I instantly imagined myself as Laurii in her place and Carla instead of him. Uff, just thinking about it, I get excited. Before the end of the scene I had already asked Carla that one day I would like us to do something like that, to which she agreed very willingly.
So in this way, we want to venture into the BDSM theme. Of course, as I imagine all couples who like these practices will do, we have set preferences and limits already spoken.
After so many years (for our young age) we know each other well enough to know what the limits of the other are, which simplifies things a lot. Even so, we know that this type of practice is not something that should be taken lightly and we want to go little by little, with which we already have plans for our night;
Basically, Carla decided that I was only wearing the leopard thong with a pink bow that she once gave me.

I will put myself in bed in four and we will dedicate some time to just spank myself, until she decides and in the way she decides. So that later she makes my tail like she knows how to do it.
He also told me that he had prepared a surprise that occurred to him tonight, I’m dying of anxiety for the time to come!
We’ll see how it goes!
We would like to know if there are communities in P! Regarding the subject and meet people to chat, who tell us about their experiences or who could give us some advice or recommendation.
I found only two communities but they are not active, the last posts had a year already.